After marriage, can the two people who are in love live happily ever after? The answer to this question is like watching a drama. The most exciting part is the process – overcoming various obstacles in bitterness and sweetness, and reaching an ending that often surprises people.
When couples face difficulties in communication during the adjustment period of being together, it is easy to feel emotionally exhausted and even have a mindset of giving up on maintaining the relationship. Entering the adjustment loop, even if there is no argument, it becomes difficult to distinguish between tolerance and indifference. This seemingly calm but actually “indifferent” happiness killer gradually erodes the relationship unnoticed.
The key to a lasting marriage is “mending what is broken and fixing what is damaged” – the Korean drama “Queen of Tears” on Netflix interprets romance from a new perspective, revealing the true meaning of marriage. Viewing life through dramas, the humorous and heartwarming storyline may help us change our perspective towards our partners.
The mini-series tells the story of newlyweds with disparate family backgrounds falling in love at first sight, their relationship hitting rock bottom after marriage, and the two eventually overcoming obstacles to rekindle their love.
The first episode of this captivating series immediately captures the audience’s hearts. The male lead, who works hard to protect his loved one even in adversity, ends up in tears and wants to escape the marriage.
The male lead, who is kind-hearted and shy, courageously started his confession with “My family has 30 cows.” He mistakenly reveals his high education and modest financial strength to a rich heiress whom he thought was a rookie at the company.
He earnestly says, “Even if you can’t find a job, I can support you. Honestly, I prefer a dual-income household, but for you, I’m willing to earn money to support the family alone, just because I like you.”
Planning for the future with someone you like and envisaging the destination of love is more touching than intense and fleeting emotions. Faced with a love and marriage proposal, the female lead is stunned. Watching the male lead happily run off in the rain, the wealthy heiress’s lips curve into a smile of happiness.
Despite the female lead’s seemingly aloof demeanor, she never once thought of divorce when the marital relationship hit rock bottom. She even lectured her brother to respect his brother-in-law. It’s not just about upholding the family name; from her wedding video message to her future self, it can be seen that the female lead believes that marriage is a lifelong commitment.
The main reason the male lead, living in a wealthy family, wants to escape the marriage is not fear of hardship or fatigue, but the accumulation of small misunderstandings and the coldness that could “freeze” their relationship. In the end, their ability to rediscover love is not solely due to the female lead’s serious illness, but the numerous small gestures that awaken hidden love, gradually melting away the barriers.
A cold war cannot fundamentally solve problems. Sometimes, what urgently needs to be addressed is not the problem itself but a sense of acceptance and security. “Love is enduring things that drive you crazy together, staying by your side rather than running away. Even if there are more serious matters than debt, being together is love.”
How can a marriage trapped in a cold relationship navigate through this adjustment period? Here are three starting points:
Whenever your partner speaks, set aside what you are doing, look into their eyes, silently listen, nod occasionally to show understanding. This act can make the other person feel warm and cared for, knowing that you have them in your heart. Even if your beliefs differ, this small gesture can gradually improve the relationship.
Living together for a long time, couples tend to maintain personal space and time, cultivate their interests and skills independently. At times, it may seem pointless to talk more with your partner, thinking you might stir up trouble…
In reality, the key to communication lies in sharing your thoughts and feelings with your partner, understanding their expectations and needs. Love needs nurturing in a marriage; to protect this relationship, patience and open communication are essential.
“Hey,” “Hey there,” do you address your beloved in such a straightforward way? Especially during the adjustment period, not to mention using names, you might not even exchange a single word, the dialogue cutting straight to the point.
If you find it difficult to change this long-standing speaking habit, try wearing headphones while listening to pleasant music and interacting with your partner. This might momentarily help you forget your usual speaking habits. A gentle and lovely tone, even unintentionally, softens the other person’s heart, triggering hidden affection.
The downfall of a prominent wealthy family leads them to temporarily reside in the protagonist’s hometown of “Dragon Head Village.” Audiences anticipate the humorous scenarios that may unfold as the wealthy family escapes the hustle and bustle. Some scenes are impromptu and highly entertaining.
The carefree rural atmosphere makes even the wealthy envy the farmers, living freely, enjoying a cool glass of makgeolli with scallion pancakes. The female lead, pretending to be strong in the countryside, sincerely expresses her vulnerability and fears, and the two rediscover love.
The miraculous occurrence of falling in love again during the adjustment period might happen to you and me as well. As we slowly adjust ourselves, the opportunity to change and repair relationships will gradually emerge.